"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After one or two years of improving myself/enjoying the single life/messing around with a few girls... I finally made one an official girlfriend tonight. I was in my car, and asked her if we were official while doing 110 down an abandoned road (the car and I can handle the turns). I thought that added a nice edge to it. She said yes, and all that good stuff. She had brought it up once or twice before, but I just blew it off.

So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
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Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
 
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Re: Re: This is probably a new one... Need help

Originally posted by rgeere
Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
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Good advice. Obviously, what you did before got her, so why change it? Though sometimes variety does help. ;)
 
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Sometimes I feel like I am doing is not enough. Im talking about kino, sexually, ect. ect. She says Im one of the first guys shes talked about so much sex with before. Some simple tips though. Holding hands in public? good or boring? Slaping ass? (yea... I do it haha). Stuff like kino, but to the next level.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Holding hands? Eh. Holding her waist? Fun. Pulling "The Crook?" Great! If you don't know "The Crook," look for it. It's by "Deagleclaw."

Slap her ass? Hell yeah! I do it to my girl and she loves it! :D

What I like to do is get up behind her and hold her and then tickle her sides and stomach. Always a fun time.
 
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