"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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crimsonclockwork

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After one or two years of improving myself/enjoying the single life/messing around with a few girls... I finally made one an official girlfriend tonight. I was in my car, and asked her if we were official while doing 110 down an abandoned road (the car and I can handle the turns). I thought that added a nice edge to it. She said yes, and all that good stuff. She had brought it up once or twice before, but I just blew it off.

So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
 

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Re: Re: This is probably a new one... Need help

Originally posted by rgeere
Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
Good advice. Obviously, what you did before got her, so why change it? Though sometimes variety does help. ;)
 

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Sometimes I feel like I am doing is not enough. Im talking about kino, sexually, ect. ect. She says Im one of the first guys shes talked about so much sex with before. Some simple tips though. Holding hands in public? good or boring? Slaping ass? (yea... I do it haha). Stuff like kino, but to the next level.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holding hands? Eh. Holding her waist? Fun. Pulling "The Crook?" Great! If you don't know "The Crook," look for it. It's by "Deagleclaw."

Slap her ass? Hell yeah! I do it to my girl and she loves it! :D

What I like to do is get up behind her and hold her and then tickle her sides and stomach. Always a fun time.
 
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