"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After one or two years of improving myself/enjoying the single life/messing around with a few girls... I finally made one an official girlfriend tonight. I was in my car, and asked her if we were official while doing 110 down an abandoned road (the car and I can handle the turns). I thought that added a nice edge to it. She said yes, and all that good stuff. She had brought it up once or twice before, but I just blew it off.

So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
So... With that said and done. How do I not suck at being a boyfriend? Not being too clingy. I don't want to move too fast, but would like to get some action everyonce in awhile.
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Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
 
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Re: Re: This is probably a new one... Need help

Originally posted by rgeere
Just keep doing what you did to make her want to make it official. You may not know what that is necessarily, but don't stop. Lots of guys who win over the girl make that mistake, and it's a costly one.
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Good advice. Obviously, what you did before got her, so why change it? Though sometimes variety does help. ;)
 
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Sometimes I feel like I am doing is not enough. Im talking about kino, sexually, ect. ect. She says Im one of the first guys shes talked about so much sex with before. Some simple tips though. Holding hands in public? good or boring? Slaping ass? (yea... I do it haha). Stuff like kino, but to the next level.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holding hands? Eh. Holding her waist? Fun. Pulling "The Crook?" Great! If you don't know "The Crook," look for it. It's by "Deagleclaw."

Slap her ass? Hell yeah! I do it to my girl and she loves it! :D

What I like to do is get up behind her and hold her and then tickle her sides and stomach. Always a fun time.
 
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