"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is how real DJ's treat women (vid)

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia,
I know that question isn't dedicated to me, but I'll tell you why I thought it was funny.

If I saw the clip randomly without Mr. Delicious' introduction, I wouldn't have found it funny, but the funny part is how people here always talk about "not taking any sh;t from women" and neg hitting them to put them down (I'm not a fan of neg hitting - btw, but that doesn't matter), and Mr. Delicious comes along and says "ok, this is how true dj's neg hit", it is so extream, that it's obvious that he's being funny and sarcastic.
 

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The boardroom one, in spite of the subject matter, was mildly funny to me because it reminded me of an episode Family Guy where almost the exact same situation happens. The restaurant one was even more ludicrous, but flat out disturbing and not funny at all.
 

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It is funny because it's so over the top, kinda like how Kill Bill is.

Also, just the way the guy says "You fvckin' b1tch!" in the restaurant just seems really funny to me. And especially afterwards when he calmly sits down like nothing even happened.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We get over hard topics by making jokes out of them; "fighting" something isn't going to solve it. Take racism: how much racism have we truly eliminated by "fighting" it, telling everyone how bad it is? I look at the humorless "anti-racists" today, and they're about the saddest bunch around, fighting with all the rage of vested interests.

Abuse isn't so played up in comedy, but like racism, it can be addressed and given much-needed publicity through comedy.
 

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Originally posted by m4a1
Francisco d'Anconia,
I know that question isn't dedicated to me, but I'll tell you why I thought it was funny.

If I saw the clip randomly without Mr. Delicious' introduction, I wouldn't have found it funny, but the funny part is how people here always talk about "not taking any sh;t from women" and neg hitting them to put them down (I'm not a fan of neg hitting - btw, but that doesn't matter), and Mr. Delicious comes along and says "ok, this is how true dj's neg hit", it is so extream, that it's obvious that he's being funny and sarcastic.
Interesting.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Which part and why?

Just curious...
hold on lemme watch em again
 

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yea basically the funny moment in both videos is when the dude loses it
"you ****in *****" etc
 

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Supposedly chilled out and in control Don Juan's completely over the top reactions in this thread is the funny part.

As a quick reality check, you are getting bothered by a post by a stranger on an internet message board.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well it wouldnt be funny if you saw your father beating your mother like that in front of you, now would it? Just replace the women in the videos with your mother, and the man with your father, and put them at home, and THEN see how funny it is.
 

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Supposedly chilled out and in control Don Juan's completely over the top reactions in this thread is the funny part.

As a quick reality check, you are getting bothered by a post by a stranger on an internet message board.
True that. Most of the domestic violence I've seen occurs in both rich and poor neighborhoods with the rich (wealthier) having a tendency to be more verbal in their abuse. While in some of the poor, ghetto neighborhoods I've been through it's usually physical.

Maybe Canada is a different beast altogether when it comes to that, but most wifebeaters are too boozed up to give a sh!t and will continue their domestic violence as they see fit.
 

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Man those videos are just disturbing... I think they're meant to be funny in a dark humor kind of way, as well as to act as an eye-opener...

It just shows you how ridiculous woman beaters' "reasons" usually are, and depicts them as cowards who hide in the comfort of their own home, away from the public eye.

On another note, I'm staying away from Swedish women thanks to Lifeforce's heads up:p
 

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Damn strait those b*tches got what they deserved.

I MEAN SHE F*CKING SPILT COFFEE ON HIM!!! DIE B*TCH DIE!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Let's face it, this sort of behaviour is not unusual and is perpetuated by the gangsta/wannabe pimp trend. Even the WWE wrestling is pretty high on beating up women, and this is supposed to be family entertainment.

When I read this post, I took it ironically, since there are a number of DJ students and mentors promoting resentment of women, sexual harrassment, mental abuse and the extreme jerk mentality, if not physical abuse.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
When I read this post, I took it ironically, since there are a number of DJ students and mentors promoting resentment of women, sexual harrassment, mental abuse and the extreme jerk mentality, if not physical abuse.
I have to disagree with a big loud "what the fùck are you talking about".
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
Man those videos are just disturbing... I think they're meant to be funny in a dark humor kind of way, as well as to act as an eye-opener...
No, they were intended to be disturbing and act as an eye-opener.
 

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Originally posted by Engetsu
I have to disagree with a big loud "what the fùck are you talking about".
There have been several posts from guys wanting to know how to inflict revenge on women, wannabe pimps who want to use and control women, guys who promote things like slapping a stranger's ass and the "make the ho say no" attitude (aka sexual harrassment) and guys who flip out because a girl turned them down/refused to have sex with them.

I'm yet to read a post encouraging beating women, but there are a fair number of extreme chauvinists on these boards.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
There have been several posts from guys wanting to know how to inflict revenge on women, wannabe pimps who want to use and control women, guys who promote things like slapping a stranger's ass and the "make the ho say no" attitude (aka sexual harrassment) and guys who flip out because a girl turned them down/refused to have sex with them.

I'm yet to read a post encouraging beating women, but there are a fair number of extreme chauvinists on these boards.
You're just being a symp (woman sympathizer) and a Captain-Save-a-Ho. Didn't you get the memo that women are our oppenents and our enemy?


/extreme sarcasm
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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