Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Which part and why?Originally posted by Mack Bishop
i thought it was funny
Just curious...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Which part and why?Originally posted by Mack Bishop
i thought it was funny
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Interesting.Originally posted by m4a1
Francisco d'Anconia,
I know that question isn't dedicated to me, but I'll tell you why I thought it was funny.
If I saw the clip randomly without Mr. Delicious' introduction, I wouldn't have found it funny, but the funny part is how people here always talk about "not taking any sh;t from women" and neg hitting them to put them down (I'm not a fan of neg hitting - btw, but that doesn't matter), and Mr. Delicious comes along and says "ok, this is how true dj's neg hit", it is so extream, that it's obvious that he's being funny and sarcastic.
hold on lemme watch em againOriginally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Which part and why?
Just curious...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
True that. Most of the domestic violence I've seen occurs in both rich and poor neighborhoods with the rich (wealthier) having a tendency to be more verbal in their abuse. While in some of the poor, ghetto neighborhoods I've been through it's usually physical.Supposedly chilled out and in control Don Juan's completely over the top reactions in this thread is the funny part.
As a quick reality check, you are getting bothered by a post by a stranger on an internet message board.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have to disagree with a big loud "what the fùck are you talking about".Originally posted by Jariel
When I read this post, I took it ironically, since there are a number of DJ students and mentors promoting resentment of women, sexual harrassment, mental abuse and the extreme jerk mentality, if not physical abuse.
No, they were intended to be disturbing and act as an eye-opener.Originally posted by Engetsu
Man those videos are just disturbing... I think they're meant to be funny in a dark humor kind of way, as well as to act as an eye-opener...
There have been several posts from guys wanting to know how to inflict revenge on women, wannabe pimps who want to use and control women, guys who promote things like slapping a stranger's ass and the "make the ho say no" attitude (aka sexual harrassment) and guys who flip out because a girl turned them down/refused to have sex with them.Originally posted by Engetsu
I have to disagree with a big loud "what the fùck are you talking about".
You're just being a symp (woman sympathizer) and a Captain-Save-a-Ho. Didn't you get the memo that women are our oppenents and our enemy?Originally posted by Jariel
There have been several posts from guys wanting to know how to inflict revenge on women, wannabe pimps who want to use and control women, guys who promote things like slapping a stranger's ass and the "make the ho say no" attitude (aka sexual harrassment) and guys who flip out because a girl turned them down/refused to have sex with them.
I'm yet to read a post encouraging beating women, but there are a fair number of extreme chauvinists on these boards.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.