In the past 5 months I've finally managed to attract some girls n get them in bed. But every time I go to put on the condom, I cant stay hard...It immediately kills the mood with the girl, n leaves her a little more than unhappy. When I finally got with another girl it happened again, and then with the next girl...Im only 19 years old, so I feel like this should definately not be happening. Its killing my confidence...please offer any advice you have.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is becoming a problem...a big problem
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Senor Juan
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Dude, just have the condom on before the fact.
SomethingCreative
Don Juan
Don't worry about it so much man, it happened to me the first couple of times too. It is normal to be nervous, the problem is you are thinking about being hard instead of thinking about how naked the girl is you are about to bone. If I can make a recommendation, try to find a girl who is a little experienced and knows how to keep her man turned on (ie. give you head until right before you put the condom on) or find someone you can hook up with on multiple occasions so you get used to it. Practice is definitely the number 1 way to get over it.
Tictac
Banned
In Japan, a woman I bedded put the condom on me. She said it was part of lovemaking for her and for many Japanese women.
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey man. I use to have this problem. So I did everything I could to get rid of the problem.vlf445 said:
I did PC Muscle Exercises
Less masturbating
More zinc and magnesium
I ate more foods with L-argenine in
After a week of doing this I was solid as a rock. I guarentee if you do all these, you won't ever have that problem ever again.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Dude Jog two miles for a week (every day)eat some zinc you will be hard as a rock
averagechan
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dont wear a condom... simple
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material