In the past 5 months I've finally managed to attract some girls n get them in bed. But every time I go to put on the condom, I cant stay hard...It immediately kills the mood with the girl, n leaves her a little more than unhappy. When I finally got with another girl it happened again, and then with the next girl...Im only 19 years old, so I feel like this should definately not be happening. Its killing my confidence...please offer any advice you have.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is becoming a problem...a big problem
- Thread starter vlf445
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Senor Juan
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Dude, just have the condom on before the fact.
SomethingCreative
Don Juan
Don't worry about it so much man, it happened to me the first couple of times too. It is normal to be nervous, the problem is you are thinking about being hard instead of thinking about how naked the girl is you are about to bone. If I can make a recommendation, try to find a girl who is a little experienced and knows how to keep her man turned on (ie. give you head until right before you put the condom on) or find someone you can hook up with on multiple occasions so you get used to it. Practice is definitely the number 1 way to get over it.
Tictac
Banned
In Japan, a woman I bedded put the condom on me. She said it was part of lovemaking for her and for many Japanese women.
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hey man. I use to have this problem. So I did everything I could to get rid of the problem.vlf445 said:
I did PC Muscle Exercises
Less masturbating
More zinc and magnesium
I ate more foods with L-argenine in
After a week of doing this I was solid as a rock. I guarentee if you do all these, you won't ever have that problem ever again.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Dude Jog two miles for a week (every day)eat some zinc you will be hard as a rock
averagechan
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dont wear a condom... simple
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material