In the past 5 months I've finally managed to attract some girls n get them in bed. But every time I go to put on the condom, I cant stay hard...It immediately kills the mood with the girl, n leaves her a little more than unhappy. When I finally got with another girl it happened again, and then with the next girl...Im only 19 years old, so I feel like this should definately not be happening. Its killing my confidence...please offer any advice you have.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
This is becoming a problem...a big problem
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Senor Juan
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Dude, just have the condom on before the fact.
SomethingCreative
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Don't worry about it so much man, it happened to me the first couple of times too. It is normal to be nervous, the problem is you are thinking about being hard instead of thinking about how naked the girl is you are about to bone. If I can make a recommendation, try to find a girl who is a little experienced and knows how to keep her man turned on (ie. give you head until right before you put the condom on) or find someone you can hook up with on multiple occasions so you get used to it. Practice is definitely the number 1 way to get over it.
Tictac
Banned
In Japan, a woman I bedded put the condom on me. She said it was part of lovemaking for her and for many Japanese women.
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hey man. I use to have this problem. So I did everything I could to get rid of the problem.vlf445 said:
I did PC Muscle Exercises
Less masturbating
More zinc and magnesium
I ate more foods with L-argenine in
After a week of doing this I was solid as a rock. I guarentee if you do all these, you won't ever have that problem ever again.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Dude Jog two miles for a week (every day)eat some zinc you will be hard as a rock
averagechan
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dont wear a condom... simple
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material