In the past 5 months I've finally managed to attract some girls n get them in bed. But every time I go to put on the condom, I cant stay hard...It immediately kills the mood with the girl, n leaves her a little more than unhappy. When I finally got with another girl it happened again, and then with the next girl...Im only 19 years old, so I feel like this should definately not be happening. Its killing my confidence...please offer any advice you have.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is becoming a problem...a big problem
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Senor Juan
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Dude, just have the condom on before the fact.
SomethingCreative
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Don't worry about it so much man, it happened to me the first couple of times too. It is normal to be nervous, the problem is you are thinking about being hard instead of thinking about how naked the girl is you are about to bone. If I can make a recommendation, try to find a girl who is a little experienced and knows how to keep her man turned on (ie. give you head until right before you put the condom on) or find someone you can hook up with on multiple occasions so you get used to it. Practice is definitely the number 1 way to get over it.
Tictac
Banned
In Japan, a woman I bedded put the condom on me. She said it was part of lovemaking for her and for many Japanese women.
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
I can tell you that, if anything, it made things more exciting.
Just something to consider.
Tictac
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hey man. I use to have this problem. So I did everything I could to get rid of the problem.vlf445 said:
I did PC Muscle Exercises
Less masturbating
More zinc and magnesium
I ate more foods with L-argenine in
After a week of doing this I was solid as a rock. I guarentee if you do all these, you won't ever have that problem ever again.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Dude Jog two miles for a week (every day)eat some zinc you will be hard as a rock
averagechan
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dont wear a condom... simple
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material
or tell them condom makes you shrink due to its plastic material