"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is an academic topic for us normies, but how do you think pro athletes, with their league-enforced "bubbles", would mack chicks?

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(Excuse me, "spit game" for those that find "mack" offensive. :rolleyes:)
When players leave the facility, they will be governed by rules -- enforceable by fines or possibly suspensions -- that prohibit activities such as visiting nightclubs with more than 15 people ...
my opinion: I just have to think that there is a "grapevine" where these studs could get access to their fans. If these guys aren't getting any action, then none of us normies will get it either. I suppose that they could have Tinder profiles where chicks that recognize them would message them, "the only part of a date with you I want is the part where I'm naked with you in your bed".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They don't. Unless they want to put their paychecks on the line. I am assuming any "high risk" activities would allow teams to suspend them without pay.
 

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They will find ways to get laid or attempt to get laid but try to keep it quiet. Some will fail.
 

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Sex parties as usual or out-call service.
Pretty much the same as in the movie Any Given Sunday...
 
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They don't. Unless they want to put their paychecks on the line. I am assuming any "high risk" activities would allow teams to suspend them without pay.
You're assuming that these atheletes are rational actors. Which I dont think at the group level they are. And If they already have millions why would hey care if they lose thousands IF AND ONLY IF THEY GET CAUGHT.

This bubble phenomenon is essentially dont ask dont tell. These atheletes will still have sex and women will still chase them it just requires more cunning and secrecy. I.E. The behaviour wont change but the circumstances will.

Cheers,
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This bubble phenomenon is essentially dont ask dont tell. These atheletes will still have sex and women will still chase them it just requires more cunning and secrecy. I.E. The behaviour wont change but the circumstances will.

Cheers,
The bubble allows them to see their girlfriends - and who is to say whether a tramp on Tinder is a girlfriend or not?
 
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The bubble allows them to see their girlfriends - and who is to say whether a tramp on Tinder is a girlfriend or not?
I didn't know that was part of the rules. Interesting.

But you're right about what defines a "girlfriend" in this context.
 

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do an f-ing google search and you will find plenty of women have "Pro athlete Stories"
 

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Another good insight is the series Ballers on HBO that looks into what pro-athletes have to deal with including women/sex. It's supposed to be fictional but a lot of that happens in real life too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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