This is a doozy help needed so I don't make myself look bad

[tennisbuck12]

Gents

The lady I was dating recently broke up with me. It happened quick and thinks were going great. **** happens.

Last Sunday I was at a bar near her house I never go to. I had a buddy who lives near there and I figured since it was a sports bar no chance I would run into her.

Well as I'm leaving I thought I heard her and saw her in the booth behind me. So I checked my phone since I snapped a selfie of me when I got home and I **** you not her ex fiancé was in the pic. What a photo bomb. For Xmas I gave her a 400 dollar coat

Would there be anything wrong texting her to ask if she was at the bar on Sunday

 

[Serenity]

What? You thought you heard and saw her, then you spotted her ex fiancé in your selfie? Was he located around where you thought you heard and saw her?

You figured there was no chance of running into her, but would she have a problem with you going to a bar with a friend?

I feel like there's some missing information here.

 

[tennisbuck12]

I was there with a group of my friends. I never go here it was just a coincidence. I'm almost 100 percent it was her

 

[Serenity]

Yeah, but what I wanted to know is if her ex fiancé was around her. This isn't clear from your description of the situation, just that he got into the selfie you took and was in the same bar. Were they talking or something is what I want to know, if they were I would just move on. Not sure what you really want help with here?

That 400 dollar coat is likely lost though.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yep they were sharing a pizza and beer! They were in a booth.

 

[tennisbuck12]

I sort of just want to let her know, I get why she wasn't into us the whole time since I would imagine he was in the pic all 4 months

 

[Serenity]

Sure go ahead, but you won't get anything good out of it. I would advise against it and just move on.

 

[tennisbuck12]

I thought so. I was just going to say hey I thought I saw you at this bar on Sunday. Drop it at that

 

[Serenity]

Yeah, no point doing so really.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Cool. I'll just drop that ****

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yep. Makes me look like a still care.

 

[badboyjmm]

I think you just want to text her by using an excuse. You know it was her at the bar and she broke up with you.

So yeah, she was potentially cheating on you, but it's over now.

So I don't really understand why are you trying to accomplish by texting her...