"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a doozy help needed so I don't make myself look bad

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The lady I was dating recently broke up with me. It happened quick and thinks were going great. **** happens.

Last Sunday I was at a bar near her house I never go to. I had a buddy who lives near there and I figured since it was a sports bar no chance I would run into her.

Well as I'm leaving I thought I heard her and saw her in the booth behind me. So I checked my phone since I snapped a selfie of me when I got home and I **** you not her ex fiancé was in the pic. What a photo bomb. For Xmas I gave her a 400 dollar coat

Would there be anything wrong texting her to ask if she was at the bar on Sunday
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What? You thought you heard and saw her, then you spotted her ex fiancé in your selfie? Was he located around where you thought you heard and saw her?

You figured there was no chance of running into her, but would she have a problem with you going to a bar with a friend?

I feel like there's some missing information here.
 
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I was there with a group of my friends. I never go here it was just a coincidence. I'm almost 100 percent it was her
 
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Yeah, but what I wanted to know is if her ex fiancé was around her. This isn't clear from your description of the situation, just that he got into the selfie you took and was in the same bar. Were they talking or something is what I want to know, if they were I would just move on. Not sure what you really want help with here?

That 400 dollar coat is likely lost though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I sort of just want to let her know, I get why she wasn't into us the whole time since I would imagine he was in the pic all 4 months
 
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Sure go ahead, but you won't get anything good out of it. I would advise against it and just move on.
 
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I thought so. I was just going to say hey I thought I saw you at this bar on Sunday. Drop it at that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think you just want to text her by using an excuse. You know it was her at the bar and she broke up with you.

So yeah, she was potentially cheating on you, but it's over now.

So I don't really understand why are you trying to accomplish by texting her...
 
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