Theres this cute girl in my study hall (about a 7.5) who i thought was into me for the past week, but lately shes talking to her friend (who i sit with too) in study hall about this guy she likes (right in front of me). It started off when she was like to me "i have a crush on this guy at our school," and i immediatly had a c&f response to it but it didnt come out and i sort of just said something lame like "o really?" Anyway, at first i thought it was bull**** but i can't figure out if she really likes this dude or not. The more i hear about it the more its not looking good for me, cause theyre talking about real things happening. Like she said to her friend "omg i cant believe you told him i liked him, im going to kill you" etc etc. How should i handle this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This girls telling me she like someone
- Thread starter DaNk
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Soniq is on the money.
That's her game and her business. Your only focus is your own game. Play it how you would any other, attract her interest like any other girl.
When you start acknowledging that competition affects your game, you start going down a negative slide.
Play it cool
That's her game and her business. Your only focus is your own game. Play it how you would any other, attract her interest like any other girl.
When you start acknowledging that competition affects your game, you start going down a negative slide.
Play it cool
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Or, all three of you missed what she was saying. It's about YOU, and I suggest you start flirting and working up to date mode T-STAT!
Girls run this routine all the time, where they talk about this guy, but it's you, but they never let on. It's a little game, and you have to play along.....and slowly start suggesting what would she do if she was standing right next to her, what would he do..etc.
Girls run this routine all the time, where they talk about this guy, but it's you, but they never let on. It's a little game, and you have to play along.....and slowly start suggesting what would she do if she was standing right next to her, what would he do..etc.