Theres this cute girl in my study hall (about a 7.5) who i thought was into me for the past week, but lately shes talking to her friend (who i sit with too) in study hall about this guy she likes (right in front of me). It started off when she was like to me "i have a crush on this guy at our school," and i immediatly had a c&f response to it but it didnt come out and i sort of just said something lame like "o really?" Anyway, at first i thought it was bull**** but i can't figure out if she really likes this dude or not. The more i hear about it the more its not looking good for me, cause theyre talking about real things happening. Like she said to her friend "omg i cant believe you told him i liked him, im going to kill you" etc etc. How should i handle this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This girls telling me she like someone
- Thread starter DaNk
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Soniq is on the money.
That's her game and her business. Your only focus is your own game. Play it how you would any other, attract her interest like any other girl.
When you start acknowledging that competition affects your game, you start going down a negative slide.
Play it cool
That's her game and her business. Your only focus is your own game. Play it how you would any other, attract her interest like any other girl.
When you start acknowledging that competition affects your game, you start going down a negative slide.
Play it cool
Docs
Banned
Or, all three of you missed what she was saying. It's about YOU, and I suggest you start flirting and working up to date mode T-STAT!
Girls run this routine all the time, where they talk about this guy, but it's you, but they never let on. It's a little game, and you have to play along.....and slowly start suggesting what would she do if she was standing right next to her, what would he do..etc.
Girls run this routine all the time, where they talk about this guy, but it's you, but they never let on. It's a little game, and you have to play along.....and slowly start suggesting what would she do if she was standing right next to her, what would he do..etc.