"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This girls telling me she like someone

DaNk

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Theres this cute girl in my study hall (about a 7.5) who i thought was into me for the past week, but lately shes talking to her friend (who i sit with too) in study hall about this guy she likes (right in front of me). It started off when she was like to me "i have a crush on this guy at our school," and i immediatly had a c&f response to it but it didnt come out and i sort of just said something lame like "o really?" Anyway, at first i thought it was bull**** but i can't figure out if she really likes this dude or not. The more i hear about it the more its not looking good for me, cause theyre talking about real things happening. Like she said to her friend "omg i cant believe you told him i liked him, im going to kill you" etc etc. How should i handle this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KillaCam

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Soniq is on the money.

That's her game and her business. Your only focus is your own game. Play it how you would any other, attract her interest like any other girl.

When you start acknowledging that competition affects your game, you start going down a negative slide.

Play it cool :up:
 

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Or, all three of you missed what she was saying. It's about YOU, and I suggest you start flirting and working up to date mode T-STAT!

Girls run this routine all the time, where they talk about this guy, but it's you, but they never let on. It's a little game, and you have to play along.....and slowly start suggesting what would she do if she was standing right next to her, what would he do..etc.
 
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