My Name is Nobody
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PRMoon said:One word
Stalker.
Whats the difference bringing some bar rat back to your place? Any girl could be a stalker it's the risks we take.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PRMoon said:One word
Stalker.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Okay stalker is a little much, but I've had just two girls really stalk me and I met them BOTH on the internet.My Name is Nobody said:Whats the difference bringing some bar rat back to your place? Any girl could be a stalker it's the risks we take.
Haha..PRMoon said:Why have to wash your sheets in the middle of the week?
Andromax said:Haha..
Well the pic is down so I can't judge her (damn) but if she fugly.. you worried someone you know will see you bringing her up?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Hey, get over here I got something for you."My Name is Nobody said:I want to get her to come visit me while I'm at work and fool around in the parking lot.
Sounds more like C&F then the "c0cky and @sshole" that you seem to want to exhibit with this one.My Name is Nobody said:"Hey girl I have a headache tonight can you come by and be my head doctor"
Yeah if she's just gonna come out and say that then she wants to be treated like a hor for a bit atleast!My Name is Nobody said:She asked me to go bang her Saturday so she's not shy.
hehe nice. I can use that tomorrow night.. just remember i haven't actually met her yet... just phone and emails.. too soon for this kinda talk or go with it?Andromax said:"Hey, get over here I got something for you."
Andromax said:Make sure you tell us all the nasty stuff you make her do :yes:
My Name is Nobody said:She texted me last night she is "horny" and I told her i'll stick my tongue in her and "lick lick.. lick lick.." lol..
Then she said "i wish you were here now" .
Haha - too soon for what?My Name is Nobody said:too soon for this kinda talk or go with it?
If you're still trying to get her to drive to you instead, just tell her "Fvck that, you come over here if you want this c0ck"My Name is Nobody said:Then she said "i wish you were here now" .[
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Last Man Standing said:Driving five minutes out of your way is a chore for a hor!! That rhymes!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Andromax said:"Hey, get over here I got something for you."
:
"Do you like horses ? "My Name is Nobody said:Well I texted her this and I didn't quite get the reply I was hoping for. She said
"I don't even want to know what you got there"
How should I respond to that?
cedd said:"Do you like horses ? "
:crackup:
cheers
619joe said:Um she obviously going on with a joke.See the smiley face at the end?Yeah jokessss
Say something like
"Um I wanted to show you my new car...but if you wanna go ahead and think nasty thoughts its all up to you...."
Car is just an example you can put anything or even make it ridiculous by saying my new toaster I just bought.
Remember its not over man.Dont hope for a certain reply.I used to do that and used to plan out stuff and they would never come out as planned.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Joe The Homophobe said:send me pic so I can provide a better assesment of the situation bro!
should you even be asking us for advice? you seem horny enough and so is she. She seems good looking enough for you. Just make sure you take lots of protection. Any girl that wants you to go over to her house and _____ after like 2 private messages over the internet cannot possibly be safe.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.