"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl said to me"you suck"

Fatality

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I was sitting at one of the library computers last week next to this hot Italian girl. All of a sudden she started asking people for a highlighter. She asked two girls first and then she asked me. I told her that I didn't have one and then she kind of scrunced up her face and then said "you suck." I didn't know what to say I just froze up. Couldn't think of anything ****y and funny. I just kind of smiled nervously and went back to what i was doing on the computer. Since then i have seen this girl in the hallway several times since and she seems to be looking at me alot. Her eyes seemed to be kind of wide too. What should I have said when she said "you suck." Do I have a chance with this girl?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MrBond_Age

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Next time you see her ask her for something you know she cant have. Then when she says "no" then tell her she`s fat and makes guys want to turn gay because she looks like a witch.
 

TooColdUlrick

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next time you see her tell her,

"u ready to see me suck"

or something like that.

you should have origionally told her to Fvck Off. you blew it cuz you let her get away with that shiat.
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
next time you see her tell her,

"u ready to see me suck"

or something like that.

you should have origionally told her to Fvck Off. you blew it cuz you let her get away with that shiat.
Tell her to fvck off? I don't think she was serious when she said "you suck"
 

TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by Fatality
Tell her to fvck off? I don't think she was serious when she said "you suck"
neither was i.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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she said you suck????? ::gasp:: you must be gay! she was just mad u couldnt supply her with all her womanly needs, get over it or do what that one guy said and twiddle one at her next time
 

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Girl: You suck.

Comeback: You swallow. =)
 

Fatality

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But do you guys think she was interested? Maybe it was just playful flirting? I did say that she seems to be looking my way alot with wide eyes.

I'm going to approach to find out for sure but aren't these signs of interest?
 

TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by Fatality
But do you guys think she was interested? Maybe it was just playful flirting? I did say that she seems to be looking my way alot with wide eyes.

I'm going to approach to find out for sure but aren't these signs of interest?
yes, but throw some sh!t back at her. 'you suck' was a test btw. you failed it. but she may be giving you another shot. don't boof it this time. she might be the type that flirts by verbally sparring. i love chicks like that. have fun definitely.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She is obviously challenging you. trust me I know. This happens to me, she probably likes you and want to see what you are about. I would've called her racist cuz she didn't say anything to other people who had no lighters.
 

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She used a neg hit on you

It was probably a subconsous playful neg hit/test

A simple "whatever girl and :rolleyes: " would've did just fine.
 
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