You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i usually use that term when a girls face is so good looking(in my standards of course) that regardless if she didnt have tits or ass I would still get at her.Obsidian said:what do mean by "angel face"?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lolBacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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She's actually a very famous korean celebrity named Song Hye Kyo. And to answer your question, she's 25.~attrACTION~ said:I agree that she has a really pretty face, sure. BUT, she looks really young in my opinion, like under 15? She looks too much like a little kid. It just doesn't turn me on. Asian girls have nice faces, but they don't have that to-die-for bubble butt.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker said:yeah I'd knock her off
Rebound Material said:
BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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You know, I think she's pretty and hot and all, but did you actually look anything up on her besides her pics?? Allison Tokke....she's called JAIL BAIT.BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.