That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i usually use that term when a girls face is so good looking(in my standards of course) that regardless if she didnt have tits or ass I would still get at her.Obsidian said:what do mean by "angel face"?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lolBacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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She's actually a very famous korean celebrity named Song Hye Kyo. And to answer your question, she's 25.~attrACTION~ said:I agree that she has a really pretty face, sure. BUT, she looks really young in my opinion, like under 15? She looks too much like a little kid. It just doesn't turn me on. Asian girls have nice faces, but they don't have that to-die-for bubble butt.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
backbreaker said:yeah I'd knock her off
Rebound Material said:
BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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You know, I think she's pretty and hot and all, but did you actually look anything up on her besides her pics?? Allison Tokke....she's called JAIL BAIT.BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.