Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i usually use that term when a girls face is so good looking(in my standards of course) that regardless if she didnt have tits or ass I would still get at her.Obsidian said:what do mean by "angel face"?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lolBacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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She's actually a very famous korean celebrity named Song Hye Kyo. And to answer your question, she's 25.~attrACTION~ said:I agree that she has a really pretty face, sure. BUT, she looks really young in my opinion, like under 15? She looks too much like a little kid. It just doesn't turn me on. Asian girls have nice faces, but they don't have that to-die-for bubble butt.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker said:yeah I'd knock her off
Rebound Material said:
BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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You know, I think she's pretty and hot and all, but did you actually look anything up on her besides her pics?? Allison Tokke....she's called JAIL BAIT.BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.