You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i usually use that term when a girls face is so good looking(in my standards of course) that regardless if she didnt have tits or ass I would still get at her.Obsidian said:what do mean by "angel face"?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lolBacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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She's actually a very famous korean celebrity named Song Hye Kyo. And to answer your question, she's 25.~attrACTION~ said:I agree that she has a really pretty face, sure. BUT, she looks really young in my opinion, like under 15? She looks too much like a little kid. It just doesn't turn me on. Asian girls have nice faces, but they don't have that to-die-for bubble butt.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker said:yeah I'd knock her off
Rebound Material said:
BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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You know, I think she's pretty and hot and all, but did you actually look anything up on her besides her pics?? Allison Tokke....she's called JAIL BAIT.BacardiGuy said:http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b137/cweskins/Allison_Stokke1.jpg
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.