this girl is into me, and now im suddenly getting the cold shoulder

[garruk]

so this girl is into me, has sent me a text about hanging out and asked me in person when i saw her at a party recently.

however, i was drunk and i somehow only BRIEFLY had a convesation with her before talking to other girls (many of whom were her friends yikes!). fast forward 2 days, i call her and she doesnt pick up. 1 day later, i IM her and she logs off.

like wtf... do i just next her at this point? i was acutally sort of interested in this girl, LTR material. intelligent, worldly and NOT a hoe (which is rare for sorority girls). anyhow, i would appreciate any all advice because im seirously confused. and im really worried i might be getting some oneitis =(. ugh.

 

[bish0p]

and NOT a hoe

Proof?

Anyways, I would say back off.

 

[MeteorMash]

Girls are fickle. And yes you might be getting a mild case of oneitis. Just forget her (She's ignored you twice. If she wants to talk now it's up to her to follow through)

Move on to other girls

 

[sodbuster]

SOME women just want to see if you are interested-does not mean they are interested in you,just the validation that they are hot

 

[Vikman]

She might never have been interested in you in the first place. Or she changed her mind.

 

[Tkman]

Ignore her for now, if she text message you back ... let her know your busy. Let her chase you.

 

[Plinco]

That's fantastic! Now you know that you have potential with some random girl, and in the meantime you are free to see other girls that might have some potential as well. Don't sweat it.

EDIT

like everyone else said, don't chase her in the meantime, see if she contacts you again.

 

[garruk]

hmm, ok so i guess i should back off a little, im just slightly concerned that maybe shes not answering for good reason (like didnt get my IM before logging off) though im probably just making excuses for myself.

I am pretty sure that shes (or at least was) into me though for those curious. Between her text to me and the party in which i semi-ignored her, i hung out with her and a mutual friend in her sorority. It was a little awkward but it was a random chance encounter and i just sat down with them for a little while. but during the meeting, it was pretty obvious she was trying to get close to me.

 

[Metaphysical]

She just wanted some d!ck you fool.

You probably said something to indicate you want to take it slow and 'date' and creeped her out.

How often do you hear a woman asking a man out? Not often. She wanted your d!ck! You dragged it out too long and she got irritated and said "fvck this fool."