Who says you have to stay in your city?^^I didn't want to put you on blast too much, but at one point, I think you had posted the exact same post like half a dozen times in a row. It was literally identical word for word. I was like, WTF?
I agree that the stickied articles are really good. Probably the best aspect of the site actually. The forum however, seems like it's overwhelmingly complaints with very little in the way of actionable advice. Not to mention, there are at least a handful of professional trolls who literally spend all of their waking hours on the forum. They claim to be ladies men but when they've posted 40 or 50 times in 12 hours every single day, well, their actions speak for themselves.
As far as flakes, I don't understand why men complain about this? Everyone gets flaked on, some more than others. It's like complaining about drivers who drive at 62 mph, rather than 55 mph as posted. Its so common, complaining about it will only drive you mad.
Here's my own experience with a recent flake. I met this one girl on St. Patty's day weekend. Cute girl. Some old drunk weirdo was annoying the f out of her and wasn't going away. I walked up and simply observed. I was legitimately concerned, but didn't say anything, I just sort of stood there. After a minute or two, the guy eventually went away. After he left, she was talking with another girl, saying she was so relieved he left. The ugly girl she was talking to mentioned she was glad I was there. Anyway, I talked very briefly with the cute girl. I was getting ready to leave. I randomly invited her to an after party. She smiled, said she had to get up early the next day. I grabbed her number and jetted.
I texted her the next day, bit of chit chat. Then, I texted her twice inviting her out when I was out. No reply. I saw her a month later at the same spot. I said hi and she was super tense and weird and didn't want to talk. Never saw her again after that. It's just a numbers game. I don't see the point of getting emotionally invested so early with a girl I barely know. I had multiple girls I was working on so what if one number flakes?
You're right. The DJ Bible and Bootcamp don't make promises. But it is implied that if you follow the steps, you will get laid like a rock star. Or at least that's what I recall reading. It's a process.
The problems with any bootcamp is that it can lead you to "burn it down" which is not much of a problem in a big city. However, it could become a huge problem in a social circle setting or smaller cities. The bootcamp requires volume and many cities don't have the requisite numbers to make something like a bootcamp a realistic possibility.