BackInTheGame78
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Chad is a term simply based on looks, not other supplementary stuff that could increase his success rate.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This dude looks like a handsome Chad but never been in a relationship.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I've been saying for the longest time that looks are NOT the most important aspect. Or I'd say: looks alone are not enough in the modern 2020++ dating era.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
I won't deny that these blokes look good, but I don't know if these are the ultimate definition of Chad.. it's a matter of opinion..
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
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I used to feel like the guy on the right when i'd game with my ex wingman who, like that dude, was a legit chad!
e.g 100% match rate on swiping apps. Approached multiple times per night. Almost impossible to mess up. He'd have needed to spit when he spoke and come across as the most autistic person on earth to NOT get laid lol
Unfortunately, i'd disagree hard that most men reach that level by dressing better
There's always some objectivity I guess, but science shows even babies know what a good looking face is.
And someone like the middle guy, has a very good looking face, 6ft 4, light eyes, great structure. I remember when he was on smallville all the girls from school wanted him, and so did their mums! lol. Hell of a lot of appeal
This is some peoples 'chad'.
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