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Chad is a term simply based on looks, not other supplementary stuff that could increase his success rate.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
This dude looks like a handsome Chad but never been in a relationship.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I've been saying for the longest time that looks are NOT the most important aspect. Or I'd say: looks alone are not enough in the modern 2020++ dating era.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
I won't deny that these blokes look good, but I don't know if these are the ultimate definition of Chad.. it's a matter of opinion..
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
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I used to feel like the guy on the right when i'd game with my ex wingman who, like that dude, was a legit chad!
e.g 100% match rate on swiping apps. Approached multiple times per night. Almost impossible to mess up. He'd have needed to spit when he spoke and come across as the most autistic person on earth to NOT get laid lol
Unfortunately, i'd disagree hard that most men reach that level by dressing better
There's always some objectivity I guess, but science shows even babies know what a good looking face is.
And someone like the middle guy, has a very good looking face, 6ft 4, light eyes, great structure. I remember when he was on smallville all the girls from school wanted him, and so did their mums! lol. Hell of a lot of appeal
This is some peoples 'chad'.
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