BackInTheGame78
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Chad is a term simply based on looks, not other supplementary stuff that could increase his success rate.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This dude looks like a handsome Chad but never been in a relationship.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I've been saying for the longest time that looks are NOT the most important aspect. Or I'd say: looks alone are not enough in the modern 2020++ dating era.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
I won't deny that these blokes look good, but I don't know if these are the ultimate definition of Chad.. it's a matter of opinion..
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
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I used to feel like the guy on the right when i'd game with my ex wingman who, like that dude, was a legit chad!
e.g 100% match rate on swiping apps. Approached multiple times per night. Almost impossible to mess up. He'd have needed to spit when he spoke and come across as the most autistic person on earth to NOT get laid lol
Unfortunately, i'd disagree hard that most men reach that level by dressing better
There's always some objectivity I guess, but science shows even babies know what a good looking face is.
And someone like the middle guy, has a very good looking face, 6ft 4, light eyes, great structure. I remember when he was on smallville all the girls from school wanted him, and so did their mums! lol. Hell of a lot of appeal
This is some peoples 'chad'.
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