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edit: I am feeling quite g@y, in fact!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This dude looks like a handsome Chad but never been in a relationship.
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Lol but still, ya gotta think like a woman. What if the guy of the pic I showed acted masculine as he was at his peak, had the charm of a masculine, connoisseur gentleman and genuinely ****y and funny- funny? I think that would balance it out.
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Chad is a term simply based on looks, not other supplementary stuff that could increase his success rate.
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I've been saying for the longest time that looks are NOT the most important aspect. Or I'd say: looks alone are not enough in the modern 2020++ dating era.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
You gotta be able to carry a conversation, protect and provide, walk away, pull, be aloof and yet assertive ect ect. It's a lifelong journey with ups and a whole lotta downs.
Here what people miss tho:
When a man is somewhat attractive he will pull more women , and thus gi through heartbreaks faster. A/one woman can COMPLETELY shatter aa world views and beliefs, leaving him stranded like a mental zombie. On the other hand: when you rely on solely your looks and the dryspell doesn't "just " end, your in trouble as well. It takes fish to catch fish.
I won't deny that these blokes look good, but I don't know if these are the ultimate definition of Chad.. it's a matter of opinion..
Matter a fact, I geuss that most men have the ability to look somewhat similar when they dress up properly.
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I used to feel like the guy on the right when i'd game with my ex wingman who, like that dude, was a legit chad!
e.g 100% match rate on swiping apps. Approached multiple times per night. Almost impossible to mess up. He'd have needed to spit when he spoke and come across as the most autistic person on earth to NOT get laid lol
Unfortunately, i'd disagree hard that most men reach that level by dressing better
There's always some objectivity I guess, but science shows even babies know what a good looking face is.
And someone like the middle guy, has a very good looking face, 6ft 4, light eyes, great structure. I remember when he was on smallville all the girls from school wanted him, and so did their mums! lol. Hell of a lot of appeal
This is some peoples 'chad'.
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