Visionist
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 27, 2016
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Did you notice she is wearing her mask upside down? The piece that bends and goes over the nose is worn on chin.
Kinda reminds me of this pic...Did you notice she is wearing her mask upside down? The piece that bends and goes over the nose is worn on chin.
lul
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe she has a pointy chin.Did you notice she is wearing her mask upside down? The piece that bends and goes over the nose is worn on chin.
Men get nervous approaching women because women have shamed men into showing any type of sexual intention. When tv, music and movies and the Disney channel reinforce it, it inspires men to show weird and inefficient strategies of displaying their attraction. Women love the power this brings them all the while keeping dating and relationships on their terms.This is exactly the kind of girl I'd get nervous cold approaching and probably stammer and mess it up.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.