"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This cutie makes me wanna bluepill...

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...psych! lol but seriously I'm loving those crystal grey peepers.

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This is exactly the kind of girl I'd get nervous cold approaching and probably stammer and mess it up. Then again, she looks a bit on the heavier side maybe.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She looks over 30, too. Cold feet approaching over 30 chicks? Odd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan said:
Did you notice she is wearing her mask upside down? The piece that bends and goes over the nose is worn on chin.
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Maybe she has a pointy chin.
 
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she seems like she has a thick neck. other than that pretty eyes. Can't see the rest of her. But damn that mask sure is sexy!
 
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Not my cup of tea.. but right on my guy.
 
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Visionist said:
This is exactly the kind of girl I'd get nervous cold approaching and probably stammer and mess it up.
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Men get nervous approaching women because women have shamed men into showing any type of sexual intention. When tv, music and movies and the Disney channel reinforce it, it inspires men to show weird and inefficient strategies of displaying their attraction. Women love the power this brings them all the while keeping dating and relationships on their terms.

Women have learned to make sex is a really big deal because it gives them opportunities and resources they could never dream of. In most other cultures, sex with a woman is an enjoyable side-effect of an otherwise normal existence. In North America, sex with a woman is something to be worked for, fought for, and achieved.

Men need to learn to take women off a pedestal and realize their are nothing special. On the most basic level, women are alll prostitutes. They give up sex in exchange for a man’s resources. Smart men have figured this out. Only hopeless romantics and Disney fans believe in the fairy tale life.

When was the last Disney movie made where the hottest most popular high school girl sacrificed everything to be with the average, normal guy ?

Wake up men.
 
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If you'd been sleeping with girls hotter than her, you'd probably neg her right off for giggles

Step game up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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some of you guys are so deprived of women. I was thinking it was a baddie, for all you know its a guy under that mask.
 
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It's just an average looking girl, i see like 40 of those walking in the Sydney Cbd.
 
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