"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This chicks like me (as she admited) but she has a bf. Hmm Now what?

aznxboi

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Hey fellas, well recently I been DJin this chick. She about a 7. The problem is she had a bf, there relationship is unstable at the moment. And tonight, we was talking emotional and I pop the question "Do you see me as a friend, or something else" and she told me, she liked and and had feeling for me. She thinks, im very close to her. I of course, didn't told her how I felt about her. I said, talk to me tomorrow at lunch and we can just talk things out. Her boyfriend, and her best friend know that she starting to like me. Her boyfriend, was of course upset. But, he hurted more then 3 times, and she forgive him all 3 times! I'm just trying to see how far, I can get with this chick. So I need some help, on what I should do from now on? Keep DJin? Kino? Play hard to get? Or continue what I'm doing now. Also, for tommorow when she ask me, how do i feel about her, what should i say?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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xhikari

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dude don't mind me
just giving an opinion
but i think she's like havin u as her emotional pillow or something man
if she wants u she better just hang that donkey of a boyfriend of hers and well go with ya.
well try makin it straight to her..besides..u can't waste too much time waitin or doin anything else.
just an opinion alrite guys..may not be good..but i tried ;)
 

jakethasnake

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Keep her attention by flirting then pulling back repeatedly, kino her, pull back, etc.... and then in the meantime look into other girls. Try to be seen with other girls in front of her too.
 

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but what happened when she ask me "How do you feel for me?" or "do you like me?" I know admitin it aint the way, but how can pull that one off?
 

Luveno

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Your game needs work

Your game is flawed. You never ask some chick you're DJing if she's your friend or not. That isn't her decision to make. Stop doing stupid stuff like that when you meet your next girl.

"Next girl?" you say...yes, next. She is using you for an emotional tampon. You'll sit there and listen to her and then she'll go home and **** her boyfriend all night. Way to go, DJ!

Here's what you should do: invite her over to your place one night for a movie. sit on the couch next to her, and use kino etc...until later, when you make your move to kiss her.
If she accepts, get her in bed and have sex.
If she doesn't, never speak to her again.

Good luck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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