Hey fellas, well recently I been DJin this chick. She about a 7. The problem is she had a bf, there relationship is unstable at the moment. And tonight, we was talking emotional and I pop the question "Do you see me as a friend, or something else" and she told me, she liked and and had feeling for me. She thinks, im very close to her. I of course, didn't told her how I felt about her. I said, talk to me tomorrow at lunch and we can just talk things out. Her boyfriend, and her best friend know that she starting to like me. Her boyfriend, was of course upset. But, he hurted more then 3 times, and she forgive him all 3 times! I'm just trying to see how far, I can get with this chick. So I need some help, on what I should do from now on? Keep DJin? Kino? Play hard to get? Or continue what I'm doing now. Also, for tommorow when she ask me, how do i feel about her, what should i say?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This chicks like me (as she admited) but she has a bf. Hmm Now what?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
xhikari
Don Juan
dude don't mind me
just giving an opinion
but i think she's like havin u as her emotional pillow or something man
if she wants u she better just hang that donkey of a boyfriend of hers and well go with ya.
well try makin it straight to her..besides..u can't waste too much time waitin or doin anything else.
just an opinion alrite guys..may not be good..but i tried
just giving an opinion
but i think she's like havin u as her emotional pillow or something man
if she wants u she better just hang that donkey of a boyfriend of hers and well go with ya.
well try makin it straight to her..besides..u can't waste too much time waitin or doin anything else.
just an opinion alrite guys..may not be good..but i tried
jakethasnake
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Keep her attention by flirting then pulling back repeatedly, kino her, pull back, etc.... and then in the meantime look into other girls. Try to be seen with other girls in front of her too.
Your game needs work
Your game is flawed. You never ask some chick you're DJing if she's your friend or not. That isn't her decision to make. Stop doing stupid stuff like that when you meet your next girl.
"Next girl?" you say...yes, next. She is using you for an emotional tampon. You'll sit there and listen to her and then she'll go home and **** her boyfriend all night. Way to go, DJ!
Here's what you should do: invite her over to your place one night for a movie. sit on the couch next to her, and use kino etc...until later, when you make your move to kiss her.
If she accepts, get her in bed and have sex.
If she doesn't, never speak to her again.
Good luck.
Your game is flawed. You never ask some chick you're DJing if she's your friend or not. That isn't her decision to make. Stop doing stupid stuff like that when you meet your next girl.
"Next girl?" you say...yes, next. She is using you for an emotional tampon. You'll sit there and listen to her and then she'll go home and **** her boyfriend all night. Way to go, DJ!
Here's what you should do: invite her over to your place one night for a movie. sit on the couch next to her, and use kino etc...until later, when you make your move to kiss her.
If she accepts, get her in bed and have sex.
If she doesn't, never speak to her again.
Good luck.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.