This Chick asked me....???

[Todd Preston]

The following questions always leave me speechless or a little uncomfortable.

What do you say when a HB asks you;

1) "Do you have a girlfriend?"

2) "Are you dating anyone?"



I usually end up with my foot in my mouth and don't know how to respond. I wanna give a good impression (that i'm no chump) but if i say i am dating...they think i'm a playa. If i say i have a girlfriend, they think i'm hands off..(sigh)

HELP me out (please)...!

 

[gungho]

Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.

 

[tricktickler]

Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.

yep

 

[Al Moh.]

Even better use c+f, that way you don't have to lie.

 

[Kal0051]

Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.

I think what he's afraid of is that if he says he's single he thinks the girl will think he's some loser because he isn't dating. Or at least that's what it seems like based on how he wrote that.

Personally I'd just say I'm single, then ask her out.

 

[Ganondorf]

nothing wrong with being single. just say yes if you are

 

[amoka]

Joke!

The following questions always leave me speechless or a little uncomfortable.

What do you say when a HB asks you;

1) "Do you have a girlfriend?"

2) "Are you dating anyone?"



I usually end up with my foot in my mouth and don't know how to respond. I wanna give a good impression (that i'm no chump) but if i say i am dating...they think i'm a playa. If i say i have a girlfriend, they think i'm hands off..(sigh)

HELP me out (please)...!

Is this a joke? How old are you?

 

[Todd Preston]

Door number 3 is correct.

Truth is...i am usually seeing somone (even if its just a FB).

So...i gather the concensus is to lie...

Why do you have to lie?

PS. Please don't ask me how old i am. If you don't have anything CONSTRUCTIVE to say...than...don't say anything. If you don't get the question, then ask for clarification. (SIGH)

Thank you!

I think what he's afraid of is that if he says he's single he thinks the girl will think he's some loser because he isn't dating. Or at least that's what it seems like based on how he wrote that.

Personally I'd just say I'm single, then ask her out.

 

[fertileTurtle]

She's interested in you. "You want to be my gf. I can see why."

 

[fertileTurtle]

She's interested in you. "You want to be my gf.I can see why."

 

[fertileTurtle]

What's wrong with SS posting?

 

[Tony T]

What is SS Posting?

What's wrong with SS posting?

 

[RandallP]

I would say something c&f like "yeah, I'm dating about 20 different girls right now."

The other day a girl asked me if I'd ever been married and I looked right at her and with a ****y face and attitude said "only 3 times." She knew I was lying by my expression and thought it was pretty funny.

 

[King Turi]

I'm honest all the time, if I'm dating someone, I'll say so, if I'm not, I'll say I'm single. ._.
Why wouldn't you be honest?
I thought the whole point of the whole DJ thing was to better yourself, not to lie to get women.
Getting women doesn't make you a better person.
You make you a better person, and "you" shouldn't make sh!t up.


I've been asked by a few hot chicks whether I'm seeing anybody, and I pretty much just look them up and down and say "why? you interested?".
Gets me a dance and a kiss most times, eventually.

That's pretty much how I got my first real girlfriend.

 

[vagrant]

It really depends on what you want with the girl. If you don't like her, you can say whatever you want. It doesn't matter. If you do like her. Say, why do you wanna know or it depends? Then smile at her. See where it goes. Be playful with her. You shouldn't be taking her seriously. Trust me she'll be attracted to you even more. If you become serious and start answering her questions like she's your supervisor or something it'll lead to nowhere.

With your situation, next time another girl asks you tell her exactly this. You know it's weird because I get that question from girls a lot. Why'd you ask? Bro, make it seem like she's applying for you and she is, because you ARE the Great Catch!

 

[She_feelin_Me]

Just tell the truth and be one hundred with yourself...

 

[Todd Preston]

Ok...now we are getting somewhere.

Yeah...Joke around with the question with a ****y funny response.

Thanks Dudes....i was beginning to get discouraged by the disparaging remarks from some posters but the later remarks make sense.

(geez...i don't know where some of these punks come from but i guess they aren't doing so well)

 

[Energizer]

You have one woman who is interested in you and suddenly you feel like you're a bigshot?

What an interesting perspective of yourself. :moon:

 

[Hughman]

Taken men are more desirable than single men.

So A&A that ****- 'Yes I'm taken. Taken by about 4 different women, including a glamour model. Let me check my schedule to fit you in!'

Or words to that affect.

Hell, if she does ever find out you have multiple plates, you weren't lying!

 

[Todd Preston]

Huh?



(this guys obviously having a bad day,,, )

You have one woman who is interested in you and suddenly you feel like you're a bigshot?

What an interesting perspective of yourself. :moon: