"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This Chick asked me....???

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The following questions always leave me speechless or a little uncomfortable.

What do you say when a HB asks you;

1) "Do you have a girlfriend?"

2) "Are you dating anyone?"

:eek:

I usually end up with my foot in my mouth and don't know how to respond. I wanna give a good impression (that i'm no chump) but if i say i am dating...they think i'm a playa. If i say i have a girlfriend, they think i'm hands off..(sigh)

HELP me out (please)...!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.
 
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gungho said:
Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.
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yep
 
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gungho said:
Your kidding right..

If you want to pick her up or whatever, you say...

No you don't have a gf and no you are not dating anyone right now

if you are, you lie.
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I think what he's afraid of is that if he says he's single he thinks the girl will think he's some loser because he isn't dating. Or at least that's what it seems like based on how he wrote that.

Personally I'd just say I'm single, then ask her out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Joke!

Todd Preston said:
The following questions always leave me speechless or a little uncomfortable.

What do you say when a HB asks you;

1) "Do you have a girlfriend?"

2) "Are you dating anyone?"

:eek:

I usually end up with my foot in my mouth and don't know how to respond. I wanna give a good impression (that i'm no chump) but if i say i am dating...they think i'm a playa. If i say i have a girlfriend, they think i'm hands off..(sigh)

HELP me out (please)...!
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Is this a joke? How old are you?
 
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Door number 3 is correct.

Truth is...i am usually seeing somone (even if its just a FB).

So...i gather the concensus is to lie...

Why do you have to lie?

PS. Please don't ask me how old i am. If you don't have anything CONSTRUCTIVE to say...than...don't say anything. If you don't get the question, then ask for clarification. (SIGH)

Thank you!



Kal0051 said:
I think what he's afraid of is that if he says he's single he thinks the girl will think he's some loser because he isn't dating. Or at least that's what it seems like based on how he wrote that.

Personally I'd just say I'm single, then ask her out.
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She's interested in you. "You want to be my gf. I can see why."
 
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She's interested in you. "You want to be my gf.I can see why."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fertileTurtle

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What's wrong with SS posting?
 
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I would say something c&f like "yeah, I'm dating about 20 different girls right now."

The other day a girl asked me if I'd ever been married and I looked right at her and with a ****y face and attitude said "only 3 times." She knew I was lying by my expression and thought it was pretty funny.
 
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I'm honest all the time, if I'm dating someone, I'll say so, if I'm not, I'll say I'm single. ._.
Why wouldn't you be honest?
I thought the whole point of the whole DJ thing was to better yourself, not to lie to get women.
Getting women doesn't make you a better person.
You make you a better person, and "you" shouldn't make sh!t up.


I've been asked by a few hot chicks whether I'm seeing anybody, and I pretty much just look them up and down and say "why? you interested?".
Gets me a dance and a kiss most times, eventually.

That's pretty much how I got my first real girlfriend.
 
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It really depends on what you want with the girl. If you don't like her, you can say whatever you want. It doesn't matter. If you do like her. Say, why do you wanna know or it depends? Then smile at her. See where it goes. Be playful with her. You shouldn't be taking her seriously. Trust me she'll be attracted to you even more. If you become serious and start answering her questions like she's your supervisor or something it'll lead to nowhere.

With your situation, next time another girl asks you tell her exactly this. You know it's weird because I get that question from girls a lot. Why'd you ask? Bro, make it seem like she's applying for you and she is, because you ARE the Great Catch!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just tell the truth and be one hundred with yourself...
 
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Ok...now we are getting somewhere.

Yeah...Joke around with the question with a ****y funny response.

Thanks Dudes....i was beginning to get discouraged by the disparaging remarks from some posters but the later remarks make sense.

(geez...i don't know where some of these punks come from but i guess they aren't doing so well)
 
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You have one woman who is interested in you and suddenly you feel like you're a bigshot?

What an interesting perspective of yourself. :moon:
 
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Taken men are more desirable than single men.

So A&A that ****- 'Yes I'm taken. Taken by about 4 different women, including a glamour model. Let me check my schedule to fit you in!'

Or words to that affect.

Hell, if she does ever find out you have multiple plates, you weren't lying!
 
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Huh?

:confused:

(this guys obviously having a bad day,,,:cry: )


Energizer said:
You have one woman who is interested in you and suddenly you feel like you're a bigshot?

What an interesting perspective of yourself. :moon:
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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