"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
This is totally your call....

BUT, if you want to act like Captain Caveman.... You find her very attractive, nothing crazy about her, no strings attached and both are willing "to get down" then go ahead....

Personally, she should be nothing more than a low level plate/booty call ONLY on your terms. Remember, according to her you weren't interesting enough for her at the time....
 

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She likely didn't go out with you 3 x months ago because you were not her first choice at the time. So right now, do not let her be yours. Put her on the back burner and b@ng her on your terms as others have said. If she says anything about even a hint of commitment, this is where you can really get her "Well 3 x months ago when I asked you to do X I was thinking more long term at the time. But right now I am not looking for anything serious".
 

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Why is this even a question? Setup a date near your house and go bang her. Did you escalate on the date last week? Definitely don't make her your priority though. She is now a second class citizen!
 

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Appreciate the responses fellas. She isn't plate #1 nor is she my only option so backburner and only a bootycall / bar girl for me.

That should keep things in check

@Roober yeah dude, escalate until you penetrate . I did but the conditions weren't in my favor. **** happens.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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