"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thinking with your d1ck and not your head

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
This is totally your call....

BUT, if you want to act like Captain Caveman.... You find her very attractive, nothing crazy about her, no strings attached and both are willing "to get down" then go ahead....

Personally, she should be nothing more than a low level plate/booty call ONLY on your terms. Remember, according to her you weren't interesting enough for her at the time....
 

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She likely didn't go out with you 3 x months ago because you were not her first choice at the time. So right now, do not let her be yours. Put her on the back burner and b@ng her on your terms as others have said. If she says anything about even a hint of commitment, this is where you can really get her "Well 3 x months ago when I asked you to do X I was thinking more long term at the time. But right now I am not looking for anything serious".
 

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Why is this even a question? Setup a date near your house and go bang her. Did you escalate on the date last week? Definitely don't make her your priority though. She is now a second class citizen!
 

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Appreciate the responses fellas. She isn't plate #1 nor is she my only option so backburner and only a bootycall / bar girl for me.

That should keep things in check

@Roober yeah dude, escalate until you penetrate . I did but the conditions weren't in my favor. **** happens.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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