"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is more of "I need input on my current situation " type thread. So the game has been good to me lately and I find myself being more indifferent with women because of it.

One gal from my past seemed to recently pop back into my life, I NCd her about 3 months ago because she didn't want to go out with me, which is fine. We recently go out last week, and I just find that I don't like being around her but I wouldn't mind railing her.

Would you guys let your **** take the wheel here and push your mind to the wayside for the lay or just drop her. I'm open to all options.
This is totally your call....

BUT, if you want to act like Captain Caveman.... You find her very attractive, nothing crazy about her, no strings attached and both are willing "to get down" then go ahead....

Personally, she should be nothing more than a low level plate/booty call ONLY on your terms. Remember, according to her you weren't interesting enough for her at the time....
 

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She likely didn't go out with you 3 x months ago because you were not her first choice at the time. So right now, do not let her be yours. Put her on the back burner and b@ng her on your terms as others have said. If she says anything about even a hint of commitment, this is where you can really get her "Well 3 x months ago when I asked you to do X I was thinking more long term at the time. But right now I am not looking for anything serious".
 

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Why is this even a question? Setup a date near your house and go bang her. Did you escalate on the date last week? Definitely don't make her your priority though. She is now a second class citizen!
 

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Appreciate the responses fellas. She isn't plate #1 nor is she my only option so backburner and only a bootycall / bar girl for me.

That should keep things in check

@Roober yeah dude, escalate until you penetrate . I did but the conditions weren't in my favor. **** happens.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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