"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thinking of dropping refined sugars?

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Now you have all the reason in the world to:

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interestingly enough diet drinks had an ever higher risk than sugar tho...

Typically don't eat anything with refined sugars or HFCS in my normal diet outside cheat days or possibly a little in the dark chocolate, although I have reduced my consumption of that to a few squares a week now and use baking chocolate instead mixed in with things.
 

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No they don’t. Diet drinks, while not ideal, are certainly “less bad” metabolically than surgery drinks.
Yes they did...increased AFib risk for diet drinks was 20% versus sugary drinks which was 10%.

Did you even bother reading the study or just go on with your rambling on what you think should be the case as usual?

 

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Yes they did...increased AFib risk for diet drinks was 20% versus sugary drinks which was 10%.

Did you even bother reading the study or just go on with your rambling on what you think should be the case as usual?

The study itself is sketchy, and merely cites an association. It is not proving any kind of causality. By their own admission:

"Our study's findings cannot definitively conclude that one beverage poses more health risk than another due to the complexity of our diets and because some people may drink more than one type of beverage,"
You tend to be contrarian on these topics, despite established conventions. Sweetened drinks are bad across the board. If one must drink them, you’re better off with the 0 calorie artificial sweeter than taking the sugar. This is treating diabetes 101.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Raw fruit that is not juiced. Honey in very limited amounts. Or optimally, ween your taste buds of sweet entirely. The occasional sweet is fine.
Honey is likely the healthiest sweetener there is in large part to the type of sugar, Trehalose and it's ability to help lower blood sugar relative to other carbs.

 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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The study itself is sketchy, and merely cites an association. It is not proving any kind of causality. By their own admission:



You tend to be contrarian on these topics, despite established conventions. Sweetened drinks are bad across the board. If one must drink them, you’re better off with the 0 calorie artificial sweeter than taking the sugar. This is treating diabetes 101.
There is too much smoke around diet soda as study after study shows negative effects and extremely wide ranging ones at that. Not just one or two different areas like 7 or 8...

They significantly disrupt the gut microbiome which is a major cause of metabolic syndrome and it substantially increase blood sugar levels as well, regardless of the sugar content...what does this tell us? That sugar is NOT the only thing that causes insulin spikes. We already know this as whey protein has a similar insulin spiking effect.

 
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