"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thinking of dropping refined sugars?

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Now you have all the reason in the world to:

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interestingly enough diet drinks had an ever higher risk than sugar tho...

Typically don't eat anything with refined sugars or HFCS in my normal diet outside cheat days or possibly a little in the dark chocolate, although I have reduced my consumption of that to a few squares a week now and use baking chocolate instead mixed in with things.
 

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No they don’t. Diet drinks, while not ideal, are certainly “less bad” metabolically than surgery drinks.
Yes they did...increased AFib risk for diet drinks was 20% versus sugary drinks which was 10%.

Did you even bother reading the study or just go on with your rambling on what you think should be the case as usual?

 

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Yes they did...increased AFib risk for diet drinks was 20% versus sugary drinks which was 10%.

Did you even bother reading the study or just go on with your rambling on what you think should be the case as usual?

The study itself is sketchy, and merely cites an association. It is not proving any kind of causality. By their own admission:

"Our study's findings cannot definitively conclude that one beverage poses more health risk than another due to the complexity of our diets and because some people may drink more than one type of beverage,"
You tend to be contrarian on these topics, despite established conventions. Sweetened drinks are bad across the board. If one must drink them, you’re better off with the 0 calorie artificial sweeter than taking the sugar. This is treating diabetes 101.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Raw fruit that is not juiced. Honey in very limited amounts. Or optimally, ween your taste buds of sweet entirely. The occasional sweet is fine.
Honey is likely the healthiest sweetener there is in large part to the type of sugar, Trehalose and it's ability to help lower blood sugar relative to other carbs.

 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The study itself is sketchy, and merely cites an association. It is not proving any kind of causality. By their own admission:



You tend to be contrarian on these topics, despite established conventions. Sweetened drinks are bad across the board. If one must drink them, you’re better off with the 0 calorie artificial sweeter than taking the sugar. This is treating diabetes 101.
There is too much smoke around diet soda as study after study shows negative effects and extremely wide ranging ones at that. Not just one or two different areas like 7 or 8...

They significantly disrupt the gut microbiome which is a major cause of metabolic syndrome and it substantially increase blood sugar levels as well, regardless of the sugar content...what does this tell us? That sugar is NOT the only thing that causes insulin spikes. We already know this as whey protein has a similar insulin spiking effect.

 
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