"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thinking about other girls

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My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The nerve of that beeyotch!!!
Thinking that you owe her respect, fidelity,and your devotion to her???!
What is she nuts or something???
Next her, kid.

Get yourself a Hor!!!!!!!!!! Now, that's right up your alley!!!!:woo:
 
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Yes she is a religious girl and went to a christian school but she does have sex with me so she isn't totally a good girl.
 
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bud_2005 said:
My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
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It seems like you have the same problem as her. Why are *you* feeling guilty about it in the first place, so much so that you feel a need to tell her?

Beyond that, she's horrendously insecure if she jealous of freaking porn star. So first you need to stop feeling guilty about it. Second, you need to tell her to deal with it and to never again to try to make you feel guilty for being a man. Third you need to decide if you want someone so insecure in your life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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