"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thinking about other girls

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My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The nerve of that beeyotch!!!
Thinking that you owe her respect, fidelity,and your devotion to her???!
What is she nuts or something???
Next her, kid.

Get yourself a Hor!!!!!!!!!! Now, that's right up your alley!!!!:woo:
 
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Yes she is a religious girl and went to a christian school but she does have sex with me so she isn't totally a good girl.
 
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bud_2005 said:
My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
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It seems like you have the same problem as her. Why are *you* feeling guilty about it in the first place, so much so that you feel a need to tell her?

Beyond that, she's horrendously insecure if she jealous of freaking porn star. So first you need to stop feeling guilty about it. Second, you need to tell her to deal with it and to never again to try to make you feel guilty for being a man. Third you need to decide if you want someone so insecure in your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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