"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thinking about other girls

bud_2005

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My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interceptor

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The nerve of that beeyotch!!!
Thinking that you owe her respect, fidelity,and your devotion to her???!
What is she nuts or something???
Next her, kid.

Get yourself a Hor!!!!!!!!!! Now, that's right up your alley!!!!:woo:
 

bud_2005

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Yes she is a religious girl and went to a christian school but she does have sex with me so she isn't totally a good girl.
 

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bud_2005 said:
My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
It seems like you have the same problem as her. Why are *you* feeling guilty about it in the first place, so much so that you feel a need to tell her?

Beyond that, she's horrendously insecure if she jealous of freaking porn star. So first you need to stop feeling guilty about it. Second, you need to tell her to deal with it and to never again to try to make you feel guilty for being a man. Third you need to decide if you want someone so insecure in your life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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