"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thinking about other girls

bud_2005

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My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The nerve of that beeyotch!!!
Thinking that you owe her respect, fidelity,and your devotion to her???!
What is she nuts or something???
Next her, kid.

Get yourself a Hor!!!!!!!!!! Now, that's right up your alley!!!!:woo:
 

bud_2005

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Yes she is a religious girl and went to a christian school but she does have sex with me so she isn't totally a good girl.
 

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bud_2005 said:
My girlfriend drives me nuts sometimes. My problem is that I am very honest with her. So if I look at porn or something I end up feeling guilty and tell her then she gets very upset then we fight. If I think of other girls or look at other girls naked she sees it as ''committing adultery in my thoughts". Is it really that bad. She makes me feel guilty for little things. She is also very sensitive so she cries over a lot of things. Does she just need to realize guys are different than girls or am I in the wrong so much if i think of other girls.
It seems like you have the same problem as her. Why are *you* feeling guilty about it in the first place, so much so that you feel a need to tell her?

Beyond that, she's horrendously insecure if she jealous of freaking porn star. So first you need to stop feeling guilty about it. Second, you need to tell her to deal with it and to never again to try to make you feel guilty for being a man. Third you need to decide if you want someone so insecure in your life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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