"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think girlfriend is IN LOVE with her bestfriend(girl)

st_99

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luckster said:
I personally don't think being "bi" is a problem as long as the girl understands the concept of a relationship between two people.

So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hamsalad

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st_99 said:
So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
Just because you're attracted to people from the same sex doesn't mean you need to act on those desires. He's just saying that just because they swing that way doesn't mean they are just going to be fvcking people of the same sex, if they actually want to be in / value the relationship at least.

The guy who occasionally packs fudge thing implys he does it regardless of relationship status.
 

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Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
 

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Hamsalad said:
Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
You're desperate for closure when the chick doesn't want to give it to you..
 
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