"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Think girlfriend is IN LOVE with her bestfriend(girl)

st_99

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luckster said:
I personally don't think being "bi" is a problem as long as the girl understands the concept of a relationship between two people.

So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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st_99 said:
So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
Just because you're attracted to people from the same sex doesn't mean you need to act on those desires. He's just saying that just because they swing that way doesn't mean they are just going to be fvcking people of the same sex, if they actually want to be in / value the relationship at least.

The guy who occasionally packs fudge thing implys he does it regardless of relationship status.
 

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Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
 

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Hamsalad said:
Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
You're desperate for closure when the chick doesn't want to give it to you..
 
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