"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Think girlfriend is IN LOVE with her bestfriend(girl)

st_99

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luckster said:
I personally don't think being "bi" is a problem as long as the girl understands the concept of a relationship between two people.

So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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st_99 said:
So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
Just because you're attracted to people from the same sex doesn't mean you need to act on those desires. He's just saying that just because they swing that way doesn't mean they are just going to be fvcking people of the same sex, if they actually want to be in / value the relationship at least.

The guy who occasionally packs fudge thing implys he does it regardless of relationship status.
 

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Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
 

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Hamsalad said:
Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
You're desperate for closure when the chick doesn't want to give it to you..
 
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