"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Think girlfriend is IN LOVE with her bestfriend(girl)

st_99

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luckster said:
I personally don't think being "bi" is a problem as long as the girl understands the concept of a relationship between two people.

So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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st_99 said:
So are you saying a girl should take a guy, who occasionally packs fudge, as a serious boyfriend??
Just because you're attracted to people from the same sex doesn't mean you need to act on those desires. He's just saying that just because they swing that way doesn't mean they are just going to be fvcking people of the same sex, if they actually want to be in / value the relationship at least.

The guy who occasionally packs fudge thing implys he does it regardless of relationship status.
 

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Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
 

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Hamsalad said:
Man, I'm angry/anxious right now I just want to do it.(Sorry just need to vent a little) But get done with work in another 2 1/2 hours. Still nothing from her. I really wanted to text her and ask "What time are you done with work? I need to talk." But I know that won't really do much but give her time to prepare excuses / probe me beforehand. I was even foolishly thinking earlier "Hopefully you're done having your fun because I need to talk." Something like that but I didn't just act on my emotions thankfully.

Just going to call after work and start off by asking wtf is up at least. Even though it's pretty obvious.
You're desperate for closure when the chick doesn't want to give it to you..
 
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