btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
"A strong man can handle a strong woman. A weak man will say she has an attitude"
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Oh yes, this is their favorite quote by a tortured woman who committed suicide by a drug overdose."If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" - Marilyn Monroe
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bro cmonAll these things are because of low IL. If she was really hot for you, she'd be on her best behavior.
Haha, that's something insane women do. They're on their best behavior because their normal behavior is shit. They temporarily act extremely nice until they've hooked you, then they become the crazy bitch that they really are. I become very skeptical if a woman treats me a lot better than normal. They probably do have a high IL, but they're very likely insane too, it just takes a little time to show.All these things are because of low IL. If she was really hot for you, she'd be on her best behavior.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If a Woman has photos of Marilyn Monroe on her walls - Be CuriousGirls love this one:
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" - Marilyn Monroe
"I'm a hot mess"
No. Go for a woman who's positive about your advances and at most asks to be with you some of the time. But if she showers you with attention then be on your guard.It so damn hard though bc if you go too far with this then you end up chasing after a lot of pretty low interest women because that seems healthier than the very clingy love-bombing crazies
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.