"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Things I Have Learned

lordclem*

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enlighting post afterbuzz.

The only thing that matters with a woman is now. What she thought of you 10 minutes ago is probably different from what she thinks of you now and what she might think of you 10 minutes from now. So don’t worry about what she thinks of you.*******

that is what i am working on now,you totaly touched me with this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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afterbuzz

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I'm glad. Its an important point. A lot of guys get discouraged too easily.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Role reversal and neg-hits work wonderfully together. It makes the women want you more. If you use just those 2 tactics(and other basics), u will see the true power of seduction.
 

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Good tips. I love it when guys post their tips on here, it always helps me think about things in a different light. I'm going to have to post some of mine once I get them out of my head!

Vanilla was the earliest perfume as my mother has often told me.

Maybe spilling Vanilla Coke on yourself will work!
 

afterbuzz

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Another tip... the smell of Baby Powder has been shown to turn women on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AFTERBUZZ, I think I've fallen in love with you. Fvckin A, Great Post, IMA PRINT THIS OUT
 

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Holy shiet nice post man! I'mma try that vanilla thing ... if anything, I'll always smell good dammit!
 

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Hey Afterbuzz, that was a good post.

I'm still stuck on one point and I'm too brain-dead to think. What do you mean when you say...

"Jealousy is the LBJF's best friend?" Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you have any points on dealing with jealousy besides the one already stated? I'm with a girl who's super hot, but she dresses a little bit tight and stuff (she's always dressed like that, ever before me and her were together) and it's gets me jealous thinking of the attention I know she gets when I'm not around.. Any advice on how to deal with this? Anyone?
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 

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There were only two posts i've ever printed out from here when i started... This one and pook's Be a Man.




This is THE best advice from this thread. Print it on your heart:

Do not ask permission to do or say anything. Never ask a woman if you can kiss them, hug them, hold them, f*ck them, etc.
Never ask questions that are designed to find out what she thinks of you.

Enough said, i wish buzz was still around.
 

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bump
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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