"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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enlighting post afterbuzz.

The only thing that matters with a woman is now. What she thought of you 10 minutes ago is probably different from what she thinks of you now and what she might think of you 10 minutes from now. So don’t worry about what she thinks of you.*******

that is what i am working on now,you totaly touched me with this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm glad. Its an important point. A lot of guys get discouraged too easily.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Role reversal and neg-hits work wonderfully together. It makes the women want you more. If you use just those 2 tactics(and other basics), u will see the true power of seduction.
 
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Good tips. I love it when guys post their tips on here, it always helps me think about things in a different light. I'm going to have to post some of mine once I get them out of my head!

Vanilla was the earliest perfume as my mother has often told me.

Maybe spilling Vanilla Coke on yourself will work!
 
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Another tip... the smell of Baby Powder has been shown to turn women on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AFTERBUZZ, I think I've fallen in love with you. Fvckin A, Great Post, IMA PRINT THIS OUT
 
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Holy shiet nice post man! I'mma try that vanilla thing ... if anything, I'll always smell good dammit!
 
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Hey Afterbuzz, that was a good post.

I'm still stuck on one point and I'm too brain-dead to think. What do you mean when you say...

"Jealousy is the LBJF's best friend?" Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you have any points on dealing with jealousy besides the one already stated? I'm with a girl who's super hot, but she dresses a little bit tight and stuff (she's always dressed like that, ever before me and her were together) and it's gets me jealous thinking of the attention I know she gets when I'm not around.. Any advice on how to deal with this? Anyone?
 
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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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There were only two posts i've ever printed out from here when i started... This one and pook's Be a Man.




This is THE best advice from this thread. Print it on your heart:

Do not ask permission to do or say anything. Never ask a woman if you can kiss them, hug them, hold them, f*ck them, etc.
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Never ask questions that are designed to find out what she thinks of you.
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Enough said, i wish buzz was still around.
 
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bump
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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