"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Things I Have Learned

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enlighting post afterbuzz.

The only thing that matters with a woman is now. What she thought of you 10 minutes ago is probably different from what she thinks of you now and what she might think of you 10 minutes from now. So don’t worry about what she thinks of you.*******

that is what i am working on now,you totaly touched me with this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm glad. Its an important point. A lot of guys get discouraged too easily.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Role reversal and neg-hits work wonderfully together. It makes the women want you more. If you use just those 2 tactics(and other basics), u will see the true power of seduction.
 
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Good tips. I love it when guys post their tips on here, it always helps me think about things in a different light. I'm going to have to post some of mine once I get them out of my head!

Vanilla was the earliest perfume as my mother has often told me.

Maybe spilling Vanilla Coke on yourself will work!
 
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Another tip... the smell of Baby Powder has been shown to turn women on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFTERBUZZ, I think I've fallen in love with you. Fvckin A, Great Post, IMA PRINT THIS OUT
 
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Holy shiet nice post man! I'mma try that vanilla thing ... if anything, I'll always smell good dammit!
 
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Hey Afterbuzz, that was a good post.

I'm still stuck on one point and I'm too brain-dead to think. What do you mean when you say...

"Jealousy is the LBJF's best friend?" Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you have any points on dealing with jealousy besides the one already stated? I'm with a girl who's super hot, but she dresses a little bit tight and stuff (she's always dressed like that, ever before me and her were together) and it's gets me jealous thinking of the attention I know she gets when I'm not around.. Any advice on how to deal with this? Anyone?
 
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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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There were only two posts i've ever printed out from here when i started... This one and pook's Be a Man.




This is THE best advice from this thread. Print it on your heart:

Do not ask permission to do or say anything. Never ask a woman if you can kiss them, hug them, hold them, f*ck them, etc.
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Never ask questions that are designed to find out what she thinks of you.
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Enough said, i wish buzz was still around.
 
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bump
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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